Divorce

About a year and a half after we adopted the girls I started to realize that I didn't want Alyssa and Holly to grow up with a mom and dad who didn't love each other.  I wanted them to grow up in a home full of love.  I did some research about the effect of divorce on children.  I learned that divorce would have the smallest impact on kids that were too little to remember their parents together.  If I was going to go through with a divorce it was then, or I would have to wait 18 years.  I couldn't stay any longer.  

Our divorce was amicable.  We wrote up the paperwork together and went to the court to file together.  We even went for ice cream together afterward.  We had two trips planned that we decided we would still take.  One was to Disneyland over Thanksgiving and the second was to Cancún a couple weeks later. 





During our trip to Cancún our divorce decree was signed by the judge and we were officially divorced.  

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